Aug. 6, 2025

Why Is Your Messaging Failing, and How Can You Fix It Today?

Show Notes

In this episode of The Tech Leader's Playbook, Avetis Antaplyan sits down with Joel Benge, a strategist, author, and the mind behind "Message Therapy." With a rich and unconventional background that spans theater, video game testing, cybersecurity, and federal communications, Joel helps technical founders transform complex jargon into messaging that actually connects.

Joel unpacks the biggest reason messaging falls flat: it’s too cerebral and not nearly human enough. Drawing from Aristotle, Maslow, and his own experience in government and tech startups, Joel introduces frameworks like his “Message Therapy” card deck, a tool that blends psychology, storytelling, and gamification to uncover the true heart of a brand.

This episode is packed with actionable insights for founders, product marketers, and anyone tasked with explaining something complicated in a way that actually sticks.

If you’ve ever felt like your messaging doesn’t land or sounds like everyone else, this conversation will help you find your voice, and your big idea.

Takeaways

Joel Benge coined the term “Message Therapy” to help founders move from brainy jargon to emotionally resonant messaging.
People don’t want more data — they want their problems taken away.
Message Therapy uses Aristotle’s head, heart, and gut model to build trust, likability, and clarity.
Joel’s background in theater and government communications gives him a unique edge in helping technical teams communicate effectively.
Gamification (via his card deck) helps teams uncover buried insights through fast-paced, structured prompts.
Most messaging fails because it skips emotion and leans too heavily on logic or technical credibility.
One simple fix: print your website and highlight content using color codes for logic, emotion, and credibility to visually audit your message mix.
Outsourcing marketing too early often leads to generic, disjointed messaging without a narrative backbone.
Founders should fall in love with the problem they’re solving, not just the product they’re building.
Creating a shared "mantra" can unify internal teams and external messaging across ICPs and channels.
Emotional storytelling is just as important (if not more) in B2B and technical industries.
True differentiation comes from listening deeply, reframing language, and uncovering the beliefs and values that drive your company.